In order for a man to have a sexual interest in the opposite sex, it is not at all necessary to create a romantic environment with candles. This can happen anywhere, anytime. An erotic background can appear unexpectedly at work, while walking in the woods, or during ordinary conversations.
When asked: "How can you understand that a man is aroused? " - any girl will confidently answer that it can be recognized by the erection. In fact, not everything is as primitive as it seems. Psychologists confirm that the desire to own a woman betrays a man's appearance, facial expression, and body movements. Speech can only convey the information a person wants to convey to others, and the face and body reflect the real feelings and condition of an excited man.
To understand that a man is aroused, there are certain signs.
The most proven and accurate way to check if a guy is horny is to look at his pants just below the waist, or better yet, to touch his hand.
Erection is the dominant sign of a man's sexual arousal. At the time of blood flow to the glans, the male organ hardens. In this case, the internal pressure can match the arterial pressure, which allows the organ to change its shape and enlarge its size.
There are times when an erection does not occur with emotional sexual arousal. This is a sign of vascular disease, diabetes mellitus, psychological distress or stress.
Nonverbal signals
There are several non-verbal body signals that tell better than any words about a man's sexual condition.
- During the conversation, the guy begins to involuntarily approach the object of his attention. And gradually the distance between the bodies inevitably decreases. This is followed by a light touch of hands and feet. This gesture will not result in any active action, it will be almost invisible. But this is how a new love story can begin.
- When a woman is around, the man wants to touch her, hug her. But circumstances do not allow this, and he tries to keep his hands busy: buttons and unbuttons his collar, fiddles with a tie, twists a button, smooths and disheveled his hair, puts on his jacket. When aroused enough, the young man wants his partner to know about it. A man can get excited when he touches her hand or other parts of the body, smooths the lady's hair, seeks mutual gaze while literally leaning against him. So don't be surprised if an outwardly calm gentleman suddenly begins to actively help out of the car or serve a coat. Everything is understandable: pleasant gestures of participation are another way of touching the object of your interest. When the sexual arousal occurs, the guy automatically begins to stroke and twist in his hands an object that has fallen into his hands and has the shape of a cylinder. Be it a pen, a glass, etc. That is no longer a signal, but a decisive appeal.
Courtship phase
If a man expresses sexual sympathy for a woman, then he will definitely mark it with his behavior. If the meeting is in a restaurant, he fills the wine glass, offers a snack, and helps to sit in a chair and get up. All this he will do not only thanks to a good upbringing, but his actions will be guided by the instinct of the male principle - to get an additional opportunity to touch the object of his desire. These concerns suggest that the young man is planning breakfast together.
Poses of a man
When he notices a sexually interesting girl, the inner toggle switch of the conqueror of the female heart switches to the "alpha male" position. And this is where movements begin that speak of a man's interest: quickly pulling up the abdomen, straightening the back (an indication of good physical condition), turning the shoulders, while sitting, lifting the legs. Such a gesture, so to speak, indicates that he has something to offer a woman.
In addition, the guy tries to appear in a favorable light before the subject of his worship. He straightens up, pulls in his stomach, straightens up his chest.
Sometimes signs of the onset of excitement can be read by touching the face (nose, chin, ears). Women also have gestures like this. They betray excitement. And touching the lips or licking it unmistakably indicates the sexual undertones of these manipulations.
Physical reactions
- Fast breathing, enlarged pupils, parted lips, a slightly hoarse voice - this is a conditional signal that a man's thoughts are working in a certain direction.
- Slightly dilated nostrils seem to pick up the female's odor, suggesting obvious sympathy.
- At the same time, thirst appears, which is accompanied by an increase in body temperature.
- Visible blush on the cheeks.
- Touching chin, nose, ears. According to psychologists, by stimulating these zones, the guy tries to hide knee-jerk nervousness and autoerotic symptoms. When excited, the skin of the face becomes very sensitive to touch.
- When a man is obsessed with passion, he loses control of his gaze and language. With a blurry look, blushing and pale, even the most sane man begins to wear such nonsense that a girl might doubt its adequacy. It's very simple - at this point, information is being processed that is not being sent to the brain at all.
- A sign of aroused state will also be the distraction of the topic of conversation in the direction of intimacy. An erotic association can arise in him when discussing everyday and everyday things.
Every man is aroused by the visual image. In order for a woman not to have to constantly monitor her erection and listen to her partner's breathing, for fear of missing a moment of incipient arousal, it is worth learning to interest the man and attract his attention.
And finally, a little piece of advice: do not turn off the lights during love games, as a young man who cannot see a girl cannot be aroused enough and does not know if he is ready for sexual exploits.